The friends you collect as you move through life are progressively more accomplished and interesting,
and in each
successor’s wake you find a cruel impulse toward an old friend.
When your friend from high school says she is coming, you are filled with dread. She is still
small-minded and
unrefined, she has not changed. (But you have, haven’t you?) You will either have to find something
else to do, maybe
get drunk in the park and look for the fireworks, or bring her along to the party and watch over her
the whole time,
pull aside your new friends now and again to apologize for what she says.
When you’ve had to do this before, your new friends, bless them, were kind and sympathetic – they
liked her, they said.
And that one time when some new friends were not kind and sympathetic? You defended your old friend,
and those new
friends are friends no more.
You do care, and you are loyal, even if that loyalty is sometimes swallowed by a fear of being stuck.
Don’t be afraid,
your new friends signal your growth. Be bold, your growth will inevitably cause turbulence for those
from your past.
Hold dear your loyalty – it shines on all of your friends, from new to old, high to low.